I've sat in front of my computer several times over the past month trying to write this post. I think I'm on version 6 or 7 at this point. Emma's recent post had me thinking as well, so I went back to editing yet again.
Why do I show halter? Why would you show halter in the breed world? Don't those horses all look weird? Wouldn't you rather ride?
All valid questions that I ask myself daily. And the answers are complicated and vary day to day and year to year - life throwing a wrench in the works, motivation fluctuations and resources. Always with the resources when it comes to horses. I do still ride a bit, although it is hard to work full-time, ride one horse and fit a halter horse, on top of other commitments, you know the hubby, eating, etc. ;-)
I bought Spencer a few years ago looking for an older QH (he is 18 now!) that could do western breed type classes (western pleasure, horsemanship, trail, showmanship and maybe hunt seat) at the schooling show level. I had a lot to learn, so didn't feel the need to jump into the breed show world at that time. I had sort of planned to learn with Spencer and then buy something a bit fancier in a couple of years.
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| Me - having fun at a local fair. Spencer, not so much. Likely totally embarrassed by his human. |
I did well with him the first year we showed and then life happened. In a nutshell:
- my coach retired,
- there aren't any other western coaches in my area,
- there aren't any western shows above the schooling show level (including fairs) that aren't breed shows,
- I have "issues" that rear up at unfortunate times (confidence, anxiety, fitness/health)
- my husband got really sick (and is fine now, thankfully)
- and our finances took a big hit.
With all of that stuff going on, I had to remind myself that my love for horses covers more than riding, showing - I love doing stalls, fixing fences, feeding, mini scritches, etc.
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| One of my favourite pics - this is my friend's horse - he is so handsome! I didn't even know the photographer took this one, probably why I like it!! lol |
I had showed friends horses in the past and kind of got hooked on the sweet show schedule - most halter classes are first thing in the morning and then you are done! Grand and reserve ribbons are kinda sweet too!
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| stand still, mother fucker! me, probably, circa 2016 |
Once my life stabilized a bit, my friends encouraged me to get a halter horse so I wouldn't have to worry about the riding/trainer/gear issue. I was on board with that idea and the search for Fred began. Admittedly, I don't love how halter horses are supposed to be examples of excellent conformation and yet most that are winning big shows are post-legged hypp n/h creatures that don't have much of a future as a riding horse. This applies to many horse-related industries though - sadly, there is no shortage of this type of stuff in our beloved horse world.
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| almost to Fred's farm in Kentucky |
I feel that you can still be part of a breed/industry without supporting the worst parts. Think of all of the amateurs across the board that feed into shows, breeding and the horse industry as a whole. There is a lot of good out there too and fun, let's not forget the fun! And, to quote Emma from
her awesome recent post "
But the great thing about these animals is that one size does not fit all. There's room for everyone."
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| Showing a friend's horse in 2015...? This is actually a showmanship class at a fair, but I showed this guy in halter at AQHA shows one year. He is 19 now! |
Now that I have Fred, I now try and look at how I want to show and take care of my horse with a view to learning, doing the best with what I have and trying to have some fun along the way. Would I someday like a fancier horse to move up some levels and win at some bigger shows? Yes, I can't lie, I would like that. Is it in the cards for me? Who knows. And I'm ok with that.
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| This has been my motto lately... |
The important thing is that I don't need those things to enjoy what I have now. And that is 3 horses, my own little barn and lots of opportunities to learn and have fun. It is so hard to not get caught up in the points and awards and the dream of travelling to far-away shows, but it is more important for me to enjoy myself and remember that love of horses that I had as a kid.